1. Trust - If you don't have trust in the person you're dating then you'll most likely have many issues with that person. Fights will occur like no other and no one likes when things are hidden from them. Trust is probably the most vital and if this is maintained then your relationship will be strong within itself
2. Forget the past - You might be starting to talk to someone who has a horrible track record when it comes to being in relationships. The past is sometimes the hardest thing to get over but if you're the right person for this guy/girl then you will sucessfull in taking that person's spot who was probably never going to be remove for that person's mind. You don't want to be with someone who carries a lot of baggage and I don't mean someone who has a lot of accessories, I mean somone who is known for having many guy/girl friends and they are almost like they're in your relationship too.
3. Sense of Humor- Everybody needs laughter. You need someone who is full of life and that can make you laugh. Best thing you can do is joke around with your partner and get a kick out of life. The littlest things are sometimes the best things.
Now, I'm sure they're plenty more things you need to maintain a successfull relationship but these to me are very important. Trust the person you're dating until otherwise, forget the person's past, if they're the right person for you they won't repeat any mistakes they've made. Find that person who makes you're stomach hurt so much from laughing.
OK, Fitz, you are natural talent at this. Your post is interesting, and its true! but my favorite is the humor, I have to have this, or it's just not gonna work.
ReplyDeleteHumor in a person is probebly one of the top things i look for. If i cant make them laugh or they cant take a joke its NOT GONNA WORK OUT.
ReplyDeletehumor is definitely important. i need to laugh and i need to be able to make them laugh. pretty much if you don't have these 3 essentials it isn't gonna work. i strongly agree.
ReplyDeleteI think you have one of the most important things for a good relationship listed!
ReplyDeleteI cannot tell you how many times, I have heard someone talk about their (soon to be ex) significant other's past as if it was important to the relationship they are in currently. It is just plain immature and a sign of insecurity to judge a person by their past relationships.